Happy Valentine’s Day!
While some eagerly await this day each year, encouraged and inspired by thoughts and gestures of love, others refuse to be entangled by the trap of consumerism and subsequent spending in an attempt to demonstrate love, as if such a sentiment can be found through a purchase.
Still, I encourage you to drop all notions of what the world has made this day to be and see it as a day to allow yourself to be fully enwrapped in God’s love and service of those around you, whom God also loves.
While the world screams, you must have a valentine on this day to prove your self worth, or significant other the rest of the year, this is not what God says.
God declares us beautiful:
Psalm 45:11: “The king is enthralled by your beauty; honor him, for he is your lord.”
God delights in us:
Zephaniah 3:17: “The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.”God covers us such as an eagle wraps its young in its arms
Deuteronomy 32:10: “In a desert land he found him, in a barren and howling waste.He shielded him and cared for him; he guarded him as the apple of his eye,like an eagle that stirs up its nest and hovers over its young, that spreads its wings to catch them and carries them on its pinions. The Lord alone led him; no foreign god was with him.”
God does not love the way the world does:
Isaiah 49:15: “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you!”
God paid a high price for us:
1 Corinthians 6:19-20: “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price.”
In fact, God says we are to love nothing or anyone above him:
Leviticus 26:1: “‘Do not make idols or set up an image or a sacred stone for yourselves, and do not place a carved stone in your land to bow down before it. I am the Lord your God.”
Deuteronomy 4:24: “For the Lord your God is a consuming fire, a jealous God.”
Song of Songs 8:4: “Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”
God is the only one who can love us more than anyone in this world can. For it is He who teaches us how to love others because he is love.
1 John 4:16: “And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him.”
God invites us to a reckless love with him. He desires to fill the aching of our hearts, and a place that only he can reside. By contrast, movies, society, media, and others gently nudge us to believe we will only find this type of love in a mate.
Instead, a loved one should only add to who we are. We are whole people without a mate, though if we are blessed to experience this in this life, that person should only enhance who God has made us to be. No one can fill a hole in our heart, though temporarily, this substitute may seem to fit quite well.
I remember a prayer that my friend, Jessica Christofaro, prayed once. It touched my heart and has stuck with me since. She was thanking and praising God for making a God-shaped hole in our hearts that only God can fill. How true is this?
We can look to others, things, success, notoriety, fame, or any number of things to fill this hole, but God made it especially and exclusively for himself. There will always be a hunger for something more, a lingering question of what else is out there, and a purpose we feel we are destined to fulfill. And only He can tell us what this entails.
Daniel 2:22 “He reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what lies in darkness, and light dwells with him.”
Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
I think of a new and popular song, one with which I have also fallen in love with, “Let Me Love You (until you learn to love yourself)” by Ne-Yo.
Link to the original lyrics are here: http://www.metrolyrics.com/let-me-love-you-until-you-learn-to-love-yourself-lyrics-neyo.html
However, when I hear this song, I imagine God singing to me. He is the lover of my soul. And he knows when I sit and when I rise. (Psalm 139)
He is the one who heals my heart and restores my soul.
Psalm 147:3: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. God binds the broken-hearted.”
God says: (some lyrics modified to fit this blog post
Much as you blame yourself,
You can’t be blamed for the way that you feel
Had no example of a love,
That was even remotely real
How can you understand
Something that you never had?
Ooh, (daughter/son), if you let me,
I can help you out with all of that
(Chorus)
(My child) let me love you,
And I will love you,
Until you learn to love yourself.
(My child) let me love you,
I know your trouble
Don’t be afraid,
Let me help
Let me love you,
And I will love you,
Until you learn to love yourself
Let me love you,
A heart in numbness
Is brought to life,
I’ll take you there
Hey, hey
Let me love you (3x)
I can see the pain behind your eyes,
It’s been there for quite a while
I just wanna be the one
To remind you what it is to smile, yeah
I would like to show you
What true love can really do
Chorus
(Child) let me love you
And all your trouble
Don’t be afraid,
(Child) let me help
Let me love you And I will love you,
Until you learn to love yourself
(Child), let me love you
A heart of numbness Comes back to life I’ll take you there
(Child let me love you) 9x
For every heart that beats, (4x)
Heart that beats, (4x)
Chorus
Enjoy this day the Lord has made. Someone said to me today, Happy Love Day, which can also be said, Happy God Day!!!!!!


